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✦ Tested review · No. 1 · Pheromones for Men

POSSESS™ for Gay Men Pheromone Cologne.

An unscented presence-plus-sociability spray for gay men. Alpha signal balanced with approachability.

8.3 /10
Scout score
Tested by
Marcus
Format
Spray
Availability
In Stock
Vendor rating
4.7/5 (203 reviews on the seller's site)
Formulation 7.5
Brand 9.5
Transparency 9.0
Quality tier 8.1
Reception 7.5
POSSESS™ for Gay Men | Pheromone Cologne
+ The case for
  • + An androstenone-and-androstenol balance of presence and sociability
  • + Unscented spray layers cleanly under any cologne
  • + Built for gay men, with a strong review history
– Where it falls short
  • Unscented, so you'll need a cover fragrance
  • The androstenone content is dose-sensitive
The full review

Our testing notes.

Possess for Gay Men is the unscented spray in the Possess family, pairing androstenone for presence with androstenol for sociability, built with gay men in mind. It goes for the balance Possess is known for: standing out without reading as aggressive.

The two-compound mix is the strength. Androstenone gives command, androstenol keeps it approachable, and the unscented base lets you layer it under your own fragrance and control the scent yourself. Effects, as always, are subjective and context-dependent.

I am getting so much more attention from both sexes. People are listening and respecting me more ... men and women are making more eye contact and flirting more as well.
- W.G.

With a strong review history behind it, it's a flexible, well-regarded option for gay men who want presence with social ease. Want a built-in cover scent? Possess Alpha Gay is the scented sibling. For layering flexibility, this is the one.

Formula & ingredients

DPG (Dipropylene Glycol), Water, SD Alcohol 40-B, Essential Oils, Polysorbate 20, Fragrance (proprietary pheromone blend)

Who it's for
  1. 01 Gay men who want presence balanced with approachability
  2. 02 Wearers who prefer an unscented spray to layer
  3. 03 Social and dating settings
How to use it
  1. 01 Apply 4-8 drops to clean, dry skin on pulse points - neck, wrists, or behind ears.
Where to buy

The one place we'd actually click "buy".

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